Families are better off when teenagers communicate openly with their parents. But how do we inspire better communication? An experimental study shows the way: We need to provide kids with crucial signals of active, supportive listening. Not only does it make kids feel better. It also encourages them to confide in us.
Studies suggest that many bullies are popular, confident, and socially-savvy. What’s missing? Empathy, and a sense of social responsibility.
What happens when adults lie to children? Kids tend to become more dishonest, and they might be at higher risk for aggressive and antisocial behavior problems.
Peer pressure and social conformity starts long before adolescence. When faced with a choice between telling the truth and backing a popular falsehood, even 4-year-old children will buckle. Yet kids also possess the ability to question — and even reject — majority opinion. What can we do to encourage children to think for themselves? You … Continue reading
What social skills are important to preschoolers? How do we nurture these abilities? Evidence-based tips for fostering preschool social skills.
How can we help kids make friends? Here are twelve tips based on the latest research.
© 2020 Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., all rights reserved Children notice stereotypes about race, gender, and wealth. And their awareness of these stereotypes is distracting — so much so that it can actually interfere with learning and academic performance. But we can help kids overcome the threat. Here’s what every parent needs to know. The everyday … Continue reading
Unconscious race biases can make us perceive anger where none exists. How many “behavior problems” in children are caused by adults getting it wrong?
Can you teach empathy? Yes. But teaching empathy depends on more than being a good role model. It depends on more than assigning kids a few educational activities. We need to understand the psychology of empathy, and the basic skills that children need to share emotions, read minds, and offer help. Teaching empathy? That might … Continue reading
White parents need to talk with their children about race, but mistaken beliefs often get in the way. Here’s what parents need to know to become better agents of change. For years, researchers have documented the phenomenon: Many white parents avoid talking with their children about race. Why? One explanation — voiced by the parents … Continue reading
© 2020 Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., all rights reserved Babies expect adults to share resources equally. They prefer people who behave with fairness. But babies are also learning about selfishness and favoritism. Can we become the role models our children deserve? Everyone should get a fair share. It’s the organizing principle of hunter-gatherer societies, and a … Continue reading
© 2020 Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., all rights reserved How do you teach kids to be helpful? To be generous and kind? Studies suggest we should avoid heavy-handed tactics and bribes. Instead, we need to respect — and nurture — our children’s natural inclinations to do good. Helpful? Generous? Caring? Psychologists call these behaviors “prosocial,” and … Continue reading