The authoritarian parenting style: What does it look like?

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The authoritarian parenting style sets high standards for children to follow. But how does it differ from other approaches to child-rearing? How can you tell if your own style is authoritarian or authoritative? And, given that authoritarian caregiving isn’t linked with the best child outcomes, why do some parents keep practicing it?

Permissive parenting: An evidence-based guide

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Permissive parenting might seem like the “no discipline” approach. A threat to civilization? Probably not, but outcomes depends on we you define this parenting style.

Authoritarian parenting outcomes: What happens to the kids?

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If authoritarian parents are demanding, shouldn’t their children be better-behaved and more successful in the classroom? On the contrary, research links authoritarian parenting with kids who are less resourceful, less confident, and less socially-adept. Kids may also be at higher risk for behavior problems.

The permissive parenting style: Does it ever benefit kids?

© 2019 Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., all rights reserved Some studies have linked the permissive parenting style with optimal child outcomes. But the results depend on how researchers define “permissive.” Kids don’t benefit when parents ignore anti-social behavior. But being supportive of autonomy? That’s different. Studies suggest that kids thrive when parents are less bossy and punitive, and more … Continue reading

The case of Summerhill school: Are today’s parents too extreme to fit the original model of permissive parenting?

© 2010 Gwen Dewar, Ph.D., all rights reserved Some people believe that kids shouldn’t be required to restrain their impulses. Adults shouldn’t tell them what to do or how to behave. Children should be free to express themselves and explore the world on their own terms. How far does this freedom go? Some parents sheepishly … Continue reading

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